Licia’s Blog

Inner Guidance and Feeling the Feelings

Inner Guidance and Feeling the Feelings

April 24, 2013 - Day 31 Choices...and the Roads We Travel Physical/cognitive update:  Now that Jess seems to be medically more stable, we can push the boundaries a little bit at a time.  He writes every morning in addition to other cognitive activities, does some...

I’m Going to Tell You a Story….

I’m Going to Tell You a Story….

"A strong woman knows she has strength enough for the journey, but a woman of strength knows it is in the journey where she will become strong."  -Unknown For someone who has experienced her share of tragedy in her life, I have a ridiculously optimistic attitude.  In...

Rebirth

Rebirth

  DAY 28 after Jess' Traumatic Brain Injury My family is not meant to live a "normal" life.  From the moment Peter and I came together, it was clear that there was a larger purpose in our union. Our second date was a week on the Outer Banks, where my father's...

The Real Work – guest post by Jess Berry

The Real Work – guest post by Jess Berry

4/19/13, DAY 26 – PATIENCE. Patience is something that I’ve always had a slight deficiency of, and now is the time to learn more about it. While 99% of me is still surprised that I’ve recovered as much as I have as quickly as I have, there’s that one percent that is...

Recovery Video Numero Dos

Jess and Licia talk about his recovery from his traumatic brain injury and emergency brain surgery 3 weeks after the event. Important links: Jess story starting at Day 1 "A New Definition of Allowing" Jess' Medical Expense Fundraiser created by a sweet and determined...

Traveler’s Rest, guest post by Jess Berry

Traveler’s Rest, guest post by Jess Berry

Jess Berry, written on April 8, 2013, DAY 15 after traumatic brain injury and emergency brain surgery The more time that passes since my surgery, the more details I can remember about what I like to call, “The twilight zone,” or the first two or three days post-op...

Trauma and How We Bounce Back

Trauma and How We Bounce Back

Day 21 - April 14, 2013 When I got quiet this morning, I felt guided to write something about what happens when we encounter something as adversity (or traumatic) and how to come back from it. There’s a lot to do to recover from trauma, lots of modalities, lots of...

Enter the Fray

Enter the Fray

“Someone I loved once gave me a box full of darkness. It took me years to understand that this, too, was a gift.” -Mary Oliver My years of exploring the darkness in my life have prepared me to face my biggest challenges and my worst fears, and it is making me a better...

The Daily Grind

The Daily Grind

Day 18 - Thursday, April 11, 2013 Dear people who are following our story, I’m sorry that it has taken me a few days to post again!  We are so busy each day now that Jess is awake, alert, talking, processing, and working in his therapies!  Whereas I was able to write...