Licia’s Observations
Mothering and Allowing

Mothering and Allowing

I was guided recently to relax into another aspect of the Sacred Feminine...Allowing.  This feels akin to "going with the flow", or the term "surrender" to me.  And while I totally get the concept in some areas of my life, I find it challenging sometimes to do this as...

Great Mother Says NO

Great Mother Says NO

The shootings in Tucson have prompted yet another level of waking up in my consciousness.  I watch how others respond…the people in my circle are mortified, appalled, even speechless at the violent act as well as the plan of protesters at the funeral of 9-year-old...

Compassion in Remembering

Compassion in Remembering

I’m currently experiencing the release of old body memory.  I’ve gone through phases of this at different times in my life since I began recovery work from childhood sexual violence at age 23.  Each time this happens, I am more awestruck by the healing process and the...

Thoughts on Christmas (2009)

Thoughts on Christmas (2009)

I have a few precious moments of serenity as the boys have run down to the neighborhood park for a football game, and my sweet husband has retired to the haven of our bed for a much needed nap.  It is Christmas, again, and we were up late last night wrapping presents...

The Gift of Acknowledgement

The Gift of Acknowledgement

Have you ever noticed that when you are having a hard day and you are able to tell someone about your feelings without being judged, criticized or fixed, that you realize you feel soooooo much better? This is something I have been working with these last few years.  A...

Integration of the Parts

Integration of the Parts

I’ve received some interesting responses to my last post, mostly in private.  Seems I’ve hit a nerve in initiating a conversation about healing wounds of the heart. I sometimes think of trust as a fabric, our original design, a picture of innocence, beauty and...

Trust is Thicker than Blood

Trust is Thicker than Blood

I feel guided to write about the blessings and difficulties with family. I have been out of touch with my parents, off and on, for over 20 years.  There have been times of contact, almost always at my hand, in which I had high hopes that things would work out and that...

The Power of Commitment 2

The Power of Commitment 2

(continued from One Traveler, One Road) One of the hazards of publishing my last post that caused me to hesitate was that some people might read it and think poorly of me, or that they may see my journey as a mandate to stay in a bad marriage, or some other...

The Power of Commitment

The Power of Commitment

(or One Traveler, One Road) A confession: in the spring of 2008, I began to split from my life. After years of fighting for my own wellness, my marriage and my family’s togetherness, I finally got tired and unhappy enough that I seriously wondered if it was time to...

“Licia Lite”

“Licia Lite”

Just the other day I met with my new local marketing maven, Deanna Mims of MarketDone (http://marketdone.org  and SHE IS FABULOUS). We were talking about how it is hard for some folks to get me.  She said, "You have a big energy".  I have heard this many times...